so it hinges on whether the parties like each other?

• It's more like it hinges on how much each party like about each other enough for them to change bits of themselves for whatever reason or occasion. but there's a limit as in how far it should go.
• it's very tiring living a lifestyle that could seem so "unnatural ". I would go mad if you were to ask me to watch soccer and drink beer with a bunch of straight men too often.
  
  - James